Music would be top for me too in that department. I suppose a more general point would be "enjoy the process, don't focus too much on the result". Music is certainly a big part of how I try to achieve that - others may have different approaches.
Yes, exactly, balance. Start by standing on one leg perhaps with foot tucked in. Once you can do that with ease, start moving the free leg around into different positions. Aim to increase the range of motion, how long you can do it for, and the degree of stability. Perhaps do it with your eyes closed too. If you start to find all of that too easy, get a wobble board.
Skate lots!