You make a very good point
I would like to think at least a few people have seen me clumping around over the years and thought “he looks like he’s having fun”. I was accused of being a “cool dude” the other day by some random woman outdoors:)
I’m just not keen on crowds, and I struggle to feel welcome at ice rinks
As an experience, the Friday night adults only roller disco I go to is much more pleasant
I love ice skating but don’t feel enthusiastic about rinks and what one might term the figure skating community - nothing personal, just not my thing
I always encourage anyone who asks to get involved in physical activity and sport, and to pursue their passion, and that you can do this at any age