Hi Christine
I know exactly how you feel - I don't ever wear dresses or skirts in normal life so I skate in trousers.
I have this silly complex that I'm not good enough to be wearing a skirt and I'm too old - stupid I know. I think it is probably true though if you wear a skirt I am sure you would skate differently.
I am taking up ice dance and the lady there said it was compulsory to wear a skirt in the club - I think she was joking but I guess if everyone else is wearing a skirt I wouldn't feel like everyone was looking at me, which they wouldn't be anyway!